That moment has finally arrived and your love is putting your beautiful engagement ring onto your finger. Soon you’re staring at it, turning it this way and that, marvelling at its beauty and how perfectly it fits your hand. Next, you can’t wait to take those photos to share with loved ones. At some point, you may wonder why engagement rings are worn on the left hand. This tradition can be traced back to the Ancient Romans. The symbolism of the ring finger is romantic and beautiful.
The Romans believed that the fourth finger on the left hand linked directly to the heart, through a vein they called the Vena Amoris, which translates to the ‘vein of love’. This theory was debunked by science in modern times, but the symbolism will never date. However, wearing this ring on the left hand is mainly a Western tradition. The chosen finger for this ring differs in other cultures.
Which Finger is an Engagement Ring Worn?
South African & Western Cultures
In South Africa and Western cultures, engagement rings are worn on the fourth finger of the left hand – also known as the ring finger. In other cultures, the finger used for these rings is different.
Russia, Germany, Norway and India
Some countries use the right ring finger, including Russia, Germany, Norway and India. This is said to be because the original Latin word sinister once meant left before it evolved to mean evil. The left hand has been seen as unlucky for some, who prefer to wear their rings on the right hand to ensure a long and happy marriage without any bad luck.
South America
Some South American countries wear the rings on the right hand, moving it to the left hand along with the wedding band once vows have been exchanged. Other European countries such as Germany and the Netherlands do it the other way, with the ring placed on the left hand and moved to the right during the marriage ceremony.
Most of the world’s population is right-handed
Then there is the fact that the majority of the world’s population is right-handed. In recent years, the rules around which hand to wear your ring have changed. Traditions evolve. Right-handed brides may find it easier to wear their rings on their right hand. It may feel more comfortable on your right hand. You may even find that you switch sides. If you stack your rings, you may prefer to change your fingers depending on the rings you are stacking above or below your ring.
What feels best for you
Ultimately, the choice comes down to what feels best for you when deciding which finger to use for your ring. If you’re a traditional bride, you will want to use the left ring finger. For the romantic at heart, the idea of the vein of love will add something special. If your ring feels better on your right finger, you don’t have to stick to convention. If you want to switch your rings when you say your vows, you can add this to your wedding ritual as part of your wedding ring exchange. The most important thing is that your ring feels comfortable on your finger.
Whichever finger you wear your ring on, the first step is choosing the perfect ring. At Cape Diamonds, we offer a selection of beautiful rings, along with a custom design service for those wanting a unique, personalised engagement ring.